Things That Drive You Crazy
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POV: Political Perspective

1/23/12: The show must go on, and it will. On Saturday, 1/28/12, 10:00 to 11:00, Octopi Cape Cod will show their stuff in front of the Bank of America on Barnstable Road in Hyannis, Ma. Come join us. Click for more.

1/21/12: Snow job! That's what we're getting from Mother Nature, a snow job. We, the 99% on Cape Cod are disappointed. We will demonstrate and ham it up at a future ...
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Cooking For Dykes, the book

1/16/12:  Don't let the title fool you. A handful of recipes does not make a culinary compilation. Fun. That is why "Cooking For Dykes" was written. Think metafiction as you read through how-to tips, a comprehensive list of seasonings, the story of a young gay woman. There are comical twists...Click on Post Title for more... << MORE >>

For Instance: Bitching Time

1/3/12: March! Forgot one important routine one can do to stay in shape without much effort. Do an exaggerated march around the house. Pick up your legs, swing your arms, suck that gut in. It helps you stand up straight. Learned this one in a rehab after surgery. Probably the most important aspect of this is to get out of that chair at least once an hour. 

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Recipes and Such

12/4/11: Figured it is about time to add another recipe. Have had onions baked in small amount of oil and balsamic vinegar, but did not have time to bake them for 1/2 an hour.
I sauteed a slice of red onion in tablespoon or so of grapeseed oil and added about half that amount of balsamic vinegar. (I find cooked onions easier to digest than raw.)

From the fridge:
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But Who's Counting?

11/5/11: So, 179 hits yesterday, 40 looks at Who Said That, 99 at other categories. Now that we've gotten that over with--will have something more to say after today. Will be going with some Cape Occupy members as a presence at a political rally. Hope others throughout the country get involved. Keep it peaceful, folks.

11/3/11: If you wonder what I look like, go to "Who Said That" in Trivia category. Scroll down--way down. Of course, I was in my ...
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Nova Scotia

10/10/11: Nova Scotia, the most popular post on this blog. Mainly photos I shot, 
but the credit is not mine. The pictures took themselves. Beautiful place.


On the Rocks.
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Even with the hordes of people that visit the lighthouse area,
there is a stillness to be heard...
and then the pipes bring ...
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Pumpkin Season

10/10/11
   Outside is shaping up. Hiring one guy works for me. We work together and though the process is slower, the pros sometimes forget a few things. Bigger bucks, too. Someone has to pay for those trucks, power plus tools and speedy crews.
Anyway.
   This year, the weather has been cooperative, thankfully. I have to downsize, as the place is getting to be too much for me. Cleanup and losing the clutter are in order. A friend told me eons ago that there ought to be a law. People should be ...
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Talking To Myself

9/23/11:
   You can see this post has suffered from benign neglect. Between obligations at the artist's guild and transitioning into writing, I really was talking to myself. I thought of a gimmick to cover up while out in public. After observing a woman who I thought was going off-the-wall by talking loudly to (I thought) the air. She turned her head and I saw the Bluetooth. 
   A few weeks later, trying to get some info about a handset similar to those attached to land phones. Purpose: Avoid some radiation to the head. No brick and mortar store knew what I was talking about. The last store in the mall was Radio Shack. While I was there, told manager of my idea of attaching a non-operating Bluetooth to my ear so I could converse with myself without weird looks from people. He said he had one! A non-operating device for $9.99. Do you believe this world?
       
   Click on comments and by all means add some.  That's what the blogs are all about, talking 
to the world, one person at a time.   We have had over 1000 hits in just over two weeks. 
Please park a while and let off steam if you want. 

2/27/08:   Today I was looking at a local newspaper's site and saw a survey about religion,
i.e. have you remained with or changed or left.  Not to make a statement about organized
religion, my problem is that they are skewed to come up with a result someone wants.  I
never seem to find the right answer that fits me.  Have you found that?  You want to say
something but you just have to pick the answer closest to your preference.  Politics, the
economy...you just have to join the masses and answer the dumb thing the best you can
or forget it.  That's probably the best choice.  Anyhoo, I filled in a letter to them with my
slant on the religious thing.  Will give you a heads up if they publish.     

12/27/07:  Phone calls to Customer Service.
Do you ever get the feeling of being lost?  When you finally get a real person after playing
ring-around-the-rosie on the phone, (press this if you want...press that if you want--), try
getting through to them.   They will spout out sentence after sentence like parrots.  and if
you do get a question in, they will repeat the same thing.  Try cutting into that to bring them
back on track and they become defensive.  They may even hang up on you. 
    Not all companies' and municipalities' employees act this way.  Some still have respect for
the person who in essence pays their salaries.  They are the ones that bring my sanity back. 
We might even have a few laughs; we sometimes take ourselves too seriously,
don't you think?

2/16/07:   A call I made recently was to an advocate (?) in the Internal Revenue Service. 
The reason I called was because an original filing of tax papers (plus documentation
regarding a deceased person) was lost.  The State of Massachusetts mailed a refund quickly. 
These monies go into an estate account.  All monies should be accounted for there and bills
paid accordingly. 
    Last month, a Federal agent told me to file again with letters of testamentary etc.  I did. 
Return receipt was signed on January 31, 2008.
    Yesterday, the advocate said that it takes 4 weeks to mail check unless there is paper
work.  That takes another 4 weeks.  
     While going through the piles of paper home, I had come across a form with an EIN
number.  I told the advocate (?) that I came across this, saying that the original paperwork
may have been filed under that number.  Yes, it seemed from her grunt on the other end,
she did find something.  When I brought up the specifics about the original filing, she 
repeatedly snapped,  "You did not say that, you told me you sent the return in in January."

Is it not possible that both statements could be true?  Am I not getting through to the gray
matter in her brain?
Actually, I think I kept my cool fairly well.   

    "What numer is on the tax return?," she asked.
     "Which number do you want?," I asked
     "I'll say this again.  What number is on the return?"  I had given her the deceased's
Social, the EIN number, all sorts of ID.  Maybe she wanted the number on the EIN form,
an OMB something.  There was also a deceased's number typed near her name, a phone
number (since disconnected, as I was not allowed to use it under my name), my Social. 
Lots and lots of numbers to choose from.  Which one did she want?
    "You're making this harder than it should be," she snapped, "I'll ask you  once more,
what number is on the return?"
     Somewhere in this back and forth, she told me she could not give me anything.
(Information, that is)
    "You didn't find anything filed under the EIN number?"
     "I didn't say that."
     Obviously, something was found.  I will go to my local IRS office, where I can talk face
to face with someone and see if the overpayment can be returned and the probate can
go forward.  We're coming too close to the next tax filing!!
    
      Yesterday, I hung up the phone and anger finally came to the surface.  It has been
a year today that Sharon passed.

Etc. Who's Counting?

9/5/11: Car I have now is a 2008 Prius. Putting on extra mileage in order to sell "Cooking For Dykes" to brick and mortar book stores in Massachusetts. Have been pretty successful on the Cape. Just want to get the Jeanne Savage name out there. I do not make bucks on this, as I pay for printing, shipping and handling.
Ventured off the Cape recently and got into a store in Plymouth. Looks like the only one left in the area. Nice guy, too. Please wish us well.

2/22/08:  Just attached bumper sticker to my car...



I think it will be noticed.  Had my own design made into sticker by Zazzle .  Quite reasonable.  That is their font but exported my own graphic.  They tell you how.  Had written to them regarding T shirts and they assured me that they use American companies that manufacture in US with our standards.  Also make their items in USA.

2/26/08: Yes, the sticker is noticed, especially by those idiots who try to pass me on the on ramp to Rte. 6.  I'm not exactly a slow driver but one is not supposed to race on those ramps.  How much caffeine are those people drinking?
   
12/30/07:  Have just shut down the Trackbacks after reading some of the garbage that was dumped there.   There was not a single message of importance, so hundreds of trackbacks got the shovel, including the drug and weird sex pushers and the insurance salespeople.  The predators have been blocked out, so perhaps the count will go down.  So be it.  See picture of me in take charge mode in About Us

     For folks who have had experiences communicating with those who have left us, please see "Getting Together" and scroll down toward the end of my comments.  Makes one think.

12/29/07: Here's a tip that won't cost a cent.  In a Consumer Reports brochure, there is info on how to protect your computer against spyware.  Microsoft and Spybot offer free downloads. The addresses: www.microsoft.com/at home/security/spy ware/software and www.spybot.com/en.  Thank you , Consumer Reports

2/2/08: Have just signed up with CR. First issue received had evaluations of exercise machines.  Most appear to be a waste of money.  I do the stationary bike which I bought from Sears a few years ago.  Not many bells and whistles except a timer and calculates calories burned, etc.  Good for my purposes, as walking any distance is wearing on bod.  I grasp weights and keep the upper bod moving. 
     One of the best movements I came up with, approved by an Osteopath, is a Karate move.  Make a fist, palms up and bend elbows so that lower arms are at right angles to your upright body.  Throw a punch forward and straight out as you turn your fist to a palms down position, left, then right.  These moves are usually made as you move your opposite leg forward to give you balance as you throw a punch.  I do it sitting on the bike while in motion and holding the weights.  They are small dumbbells (sissy weights at first).  These motions can be slow at first, then speeded up as you gain balance, etc.   Every little bit helps.

2/3/08:   Thank the good Lord I straightened out my credit eons ago.  Pay balances every month.  Made a mistake when I paid my 11/18/07 bill, excuse dyslexic me.  I reversed a figure and was $20.91 short.  They charged me $38.63 on the 1/17/08 bill.  Seems they do something with the prime, something with the outstanding balance, that is, everything I charged the following two months added to the $20.91.  I suppose it is included in the line "purchases*finance charge*periodic rate" at bottom of my purchases list.  ??  I was unable to get an answer from the phone reps. as to the breakdown, i.e. is the 20.91 in that figure?
2/4/08:
    Just spoke with a representative.  They voluntarily removed the $38.63 charge.  My point was missed, however.  They still can't explain why Citibank just doesn't put the amount underpaid as a "balance due" on my next bill so I know where I stand.  It is just hidden somewhere and everything I buy for two months has an added finance charge even though I  pay the full balance due monthly.  Crikies! 
     Those execs. at CitiBank must be rolling in it.  Even if they did screw up on mortgages, like so many other lending institutions.  Think of all the bucks that are rolling in from people who can't afford much and do not understand the consequences. 
     When I was a kid, my parents suffered through the depression, rented for years, then eventually worked up to a mortgage.   Mortgages to me were the biggest ripoff conceived by big business banking.  They have even put a new spin on  it, in a sense, for people looking for a home equity loan.  Friend was sold on a fixed loan for construction on house at a bank (a huge institution).  The representative sat there and acted as if she never heard of such a thing as paying interest on the balance each month.  In other words, don't bother to pay extra to whittle down debt, just keep it going longer! Friend got rid of the damn 20 year thing in a little over  a year.  Good riddance.  Next time, shop around and find an honest broker.
     Don't get suckered in.  It'll drive you crazy. 

  • Why don't they rein in the money lenders.  At least make the language simple enough for laypeople to understand.  If they did away with all the balloon payments and gobbledegook about the prime and the sub-prime, wouldn't that help in making the consumer informed?  Try reading some of that stuff.  It's like poring over a prospectus.

While we're dreaming...If they did away with mortgages altogether and regulated that any loan, whether for a house or credit card purchase,  only be charged interest on the balance due monthly (similar to a home equity loan), it would encourage people to pay extra each month.  Even if they had to whittle down that credit card debt to do it.  Fat chance getting the legislators to go anywhere with such an idea.  Check out the deficit.  Do our representatives really care about debt?  Unfortunately they are indebted to those that contribute the most to get them elected.

The Cape and Beyond

 
    The Cape?  No, Boston on a Sunday morning.  We had been to a wedding reception  in
the financial district Saturday night.  We stayed across the street and went to a breakfast
bash at the Hyatt hosted by the parents of the bride.  Fantastic time.  Before anyone was
out and about Sunday morning, we hit the pavement and shot digital.  Don't you love the
convenience of those cameras?
      


It was almost time to get over to the brunch thing.  People were starting to
come at us.  Note the cup at the curb.  Meanwhile, back at the Cape......




Falmouth waterfront.  Most of these photos were taken as reference material for
painting.  If the masts were straight, it would have made a better photo.  One of these
days, I'll fix...gotta run.



Dennis Port, MA area - off-season.  Since coming to Cape Cod in 2000, it has become
the center of my universe, hence the title "The Cape and Beyond".  To see more
Mid-Cape photos, especially the lambs and other good stuff, see Outdoor Shows in the
Art Zone.  [Still trying to straighten out the links for within this site.]



In the middle of Boston?  Fund raiser cow.  They were auctioned off much as the
decorated whales were on Cape Cod.  Great idea.



Isn't she a beauty?

It just occurred to me.  Apparently, I can send all I want over the internet. 
Is it endless? Can I put all I want on this medium? 
All my junk?  Everything? 



South Dennis residence.  The owner is a horticulture professional.  She welcomed me
onto the grounds to shoot photos for my painting.  The horses were friendly, too, so I
put the camera to work. 





And you thought the Cape was just sandy beaches. 





Two views of P Town

Just an observation: When you visit Provincetown, notice the straight couples.  As they
stroll down the streets, they do a lot of hand-holding, at times intensely, especially
when approaching outed folks.   Sorry, I'm a people-watcher sort.



Trip to Moltonborough this Mothers Day.  Nobody else was up in the early A.M., so grabbed a few shots
near the lake.